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Jack Cluth's avatar

I never had children, but I know and have seen enough to know that parenting is a results-oriented business. By any reasonable measure, you've done a helluva job, and you have every right to be proud. The only yardstick that truly matters is your own, and I think it's great that you've made peace with that.

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Colby Black's avatar

I love this. My first and only kid hits 5 months tomorrow. I've put a lot of thought the last year into what I want(ed) to imbue her with. I've started thinking of them as the superpowers I want her to have:

1. Writing is a super power. Being able to capture a reality and convey that to others only gets more important.

2. Curiosity is a super power. One that has always driven me, and is in stark contrast to much of my family.

3. Kindness is a super power. One I have definitely gotten better at through the years, and one I constantly see the benefits from (even besides it being the right thing to do.)

4. Saving money is a super power. One it's taken me 40+ years to get decent at, and one I hadn't really appreciated the power of until I got decent at it.

5. Helping is a super power.

6. Asking for help is a super power.

7. Receiving help is a super power.

8. Understanding where societal pressure is coming from is a super power ... and then telling it to go fly a kite.

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